Lighthouse Counseling & Wellness

Lighthouses are beacons of hope, strength, and security. They help people navigate their way back to safety. I can help you to navigate your way back to wellness.

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Individual counseling
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Sometimes all you need is a little light to guide the way…

Have you ever had an experience that seemed to change everything and nothing all at once? Everything in life looks familiar, but something is off. Life is different, yet the days keep passing as though nothing has changed. Maybe you don’t recognize your own life anymore…but here you are living it. Or it could be that someone else has voiced concerns for your mental health and wellness and it has you wondering if there is actually something that needs to change.

Seeking services can be both frightening and empowering. Maybe you’ve never been to therapy and don’t know what to expect or it could be that you had a therapist but the connection just wasn’t right. Whatever your circumstance, I’m glad you are here. That shows that you have both the strength and courage it takes to make whatever changes that you desire.

I view each person and situation as unique. I am here to create a safe place for you to explore and process your feelings and experiences.

It takes courage to ask for help, and I am beyond grateful to be the one to walk beside you in your journey of healing.

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Specialties

There may come a time in life when a loved one or pet dies and you realize that the term, “My heart is broken” means so much more than emotional pain…it’s a physical pain as well. You are lost, scared, lonely, and your world has been turned upside down. You may even be experiencing some relief following the loss. This is normal, but you may feel guilty about it. I help people process through emotions, find a sense of meaning and purpose, and transition from surviving to thriving while honoring the memory of their loved one or pet.

You have served your city, county, state, or country as a First Responder or Military member, but sometimes you struggle to feel your very best. Many people can’t relate to what you’ve experienced or even done. At times, you may become stuck in your thoughts, memories, and experiences. You don’t want to “burden” your loved ones by sharing your experiences. Having been in Law Enforcement, I understand the typcial dark sense of humor often used that most other people don’t understand. With me, you don’t have to hold back your experiences, as I know the culture. I also recognize the need to focus on the task and I will work along side of you to resolve concerns as efficiently as possible.

In addition, I help those who battle with the loneliness, despair, and confusion that often surrounds the unhealthy use of alcohol and/or drugs. While working together, I will help you to find a sense of belonging, hope, and healing that can help you to restore relationships, your self-esteem, and emotional stability.

I also work well with professionals experiencing burnout, people who experience anxiety/panic attacks, those who describe themselves as “perfectionists”, and parents who seek parenting assistance. In addition, I enjoy working with people who have a chronic medical illness and/or those who support or care for them. I work closely with the LGBTQIA+ community.

 

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About Me

I have a passion for helping others live the life that they were meant to live. We all get off track at times. I know that I certainly have. There is no shame in seeking therapeutic services to improve your mental health and wellness. We live in a world that’s chaotic and sometimes we just need a moment to breathe, vent, destress, heal, and refresh.

I am not your “stereotypical” therapist. We can pray together, cuss like sailors, cry together, or share a good laugh. I believe that the use of appropriate self-disclosure can also strengthen the bond between the therapist and client. I am caring and compassionate, but I am also direct and will push you to confront what is holding you back from living your best life.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why should I choose you as my therapist?

That’s easy, because I’m awesome!

Oh, you want more… Well, let me start off with the fact that I acknowledge that not every therapist is a good fit for every client and vice-versa. The client must feel comfortable with the therapist and the therapist needs to have the professional experience to be able to treat the client. Research indicates that the professional relationship formed between the client and therapist is one of the strongest indicators that therapy will be effective. My style, my personality, and my boundaries may not be what you need…or I could be exactly what you need. There are times when it may take a few sessions for the client to make a decision as to if the therapeutic relationship is a good fit or for the therapist to recognize that their specialties are not exactly what the client needs and will make a referral for another therapist who can provide better services to meet the client’s needs.

Who is your ideal client?

I like this question…a lot. I like it because when we are a good match, you see and feel progress much more quickly.

My ideal client is one who recognizes that, although this is my source of income, ultimately therapy is an INVESTMENT IN YOURSELF. I love the ones who show up consistently and who aren’t afraid to put in the hard work that it takes to reach their goals. The ones who are truly ready to feel and actually “be” better than when they first came through the door. The ones who know that the benefits of therapy last far beyond the time that they actually spend in therapy. My ideal client is open to recognizing that therapy provides mental and physical wellness, improved relationships (with self and others), and increased productivity in life. My ideal client may initially crawl through the door already exhausted from this thing called life…but they still showed up.

I also appreciate those who recognize that providing therapy is my business, and that, as much as I love my job, I also have to earn a living. That means that I stick to my policies (fees and late cancellations specifically). I mean, just think about it…what kind of therapist would I be if I encouraged clients to set goals, determine boundaries, and maintain self-care but then not practice or expect the same of myself?! And NO client wants or deserves an exhausted, burned out, and emotionally unavailable therapist!

You are investing in yourself, and you deserve better than that! You are also investing in my services, and I owe you better than that!

What can I expect to happen during a therapy session?

Your guess is as good as mine! Just as every person and situation is unique, so are sessions. You are the boss and get to decide what is addressed and what you want to take from the session. There may be days where you talk, some days we both talk, and other days we may play games (with a therapeutic twist, of course!) Also, some people are appropriate for Accelerated Resolution Therapy so those sessions are very structured.

While I can’t say for certainty what WILL happen during a session, I can say what WILL NOT happen during a session. I will not ridicule, judge, or belittle you. I will not force my personal beliefs, values, or opinions upon you. I will not force you to do anything or address anything that you don’t wish to do.

What is Accelerated Resolution Therapy?

Accelerated Resolution Therapy is an evidence based treatment modality that utilizes rapid eye movements and memory visualization and reconsolidation. It has been proven to be effective in treating Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Depression, Grief, Phobias, Anxiety, and Addiction. Additional information can be found at: www.acceleratedresolutiontherapy.com

Do you accept insurance?

While I understand that there are perks for using insurance benefits to cover the cost of mental health counseling, there are also many drawbacks with accepting insurance coverage. I have weighed the pros and cons of accepting insurance (for both you as the client and myself as the clinician) and have decided, at this time, to not accept insurance.

Insurance companies mandate that a client be diagnosed with a mental illness (clinical diagnosis) to obtain treatment services. By not accepting insurance, we get to work together with or without an “official” mental health diagnosis. I mean, sometimes all that is needed is a little help to figure out a better way to deal with stress, obtain additional support, or problem solve, which insurance companies do not recognize.

Also, as a private pay client, your protected health information (PHI) remains confidential rather than being audited/reviewed by the insurance company (yes, they have the ability to access your diagnosis, progress notes, and other personal information).

Being a private pay provider allows me to offer more individualized and flexible sessions to you and enables me to provide you with a customized treatment plan tailored to your individual needs rather than a “cookie cutter” insurance-driven treatment plan. I have the ability to be more available for my clients (especially those who need multiple sessions per week) because I’m not spending extra time on submitting billing or completing other insurance paperwork.  It also allows me to be more emotionally available because I haven’t spent my emotional energy having to explain to the insurance company why you DESERVE to receive appropriate mental health services without limitations.

In addition, I get to enjoy having the freedom and autonomy to utilize whatever treatment approach is most appropriate for each client, see clients without limits on sessions, and not be bound by insurance “rules.” Insurance limits the amount of time we get to spend together. Sometimes you may need more than a typical 50-55 minute session and now you have the freedom to enjoy such if YOU choose to do so!

In addition, seeking a therapist that accepts your insurance may require that you see someone who is less experienced or specialized.

However, just because I don’t accept insurance, that does not mean that you cannot utilize your insurance coverage for your services. I am considered an Out-Of-Network (OON) provider and there is the POTENTIAL for your insurance company to reimburse you for some or all of the cost of services. This varies between insurance plans; therefore, I encourage you to find out if your insurance plan will cover OON mental health services in an outpatient setting.

When speaking with your insurance company, you may also want to ask if there is a deductible, if there is a limit to the number of sessions that you can attend, and if pre-authorization is required. The typical CPT codes utilized for insurance are 90791, 90834, and 90837 (this specifies the type and length of session). Although I do not interact directly with insurance companies (I do provide you with a superbill that you can submit to your insurance company), using your insurance means that I will need to provide a clinical diagnosis and adhere to their standardized treatment plans, modalities, and you may have a limited number of sessions allowed.

Keep in mind that any time you use your insurance, the medical information disclosed becomes part of your permanent medical record. Therefore, the insurance company can still audit your file and have access to your medical/mental health information. In addition, having certain mental health diagnoses can interfere with your ability to obtain or can increase the cost of disability and/or life insurance coverage, limit certain employment options, and have other negative impacts. We can discuss this further if necessary.

Where can I find additional assistance?

CRISIS:

The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (TALK)
Text TALK to 741741
www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org

Veterans Crisis Line: 1-800-273-8255 (TALK) and press 1
Veterans Crisis Text: 838255
www.veteranscrisisline.net

COPLINE: 1-800-267-5463

Fire and EMS: 1-888-731-3473 (FIRE)

National Alliance on Mental Health (NAMI) call or text: 800-950-6264 or, if in CRISIS, call or text: 9-8-8

Teen and Youth Crisis Line: 1-877-968-8491
Text teen2teen to 839863

National Institute on Drug Abuse Hotline: 1-800-662-4357

National Helpline for Substance Abuse: 1-800-262-2463

Poison Control: 1-800-222-1222

The LGBT National Hotline: 1-888-843-4564

The Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386

Trevor Text: Text TREVOR to 1-202-304-1200

www.thetrevorproject.org

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First Responders (Police, Fire, Medic, Dispatch, Probation/Parole-State and Federal) and Military personnel (Active and Retired) are eligible to receive 10% off the full rate of any service when not requesting reimbursement from insurance.